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Review: American Ruin Leather Straps

Review: American Ruin Leather Straps

As I stated in my start-of-the-year post, I wanted to work more with smaller makers this year. And it didn’t take long to line up my first! It was so exciting to have American Ruin come to me about reviewing some of their wonderful leather goods. American Ruin, as they say on their Etsy page, makes ‘Handmade Leather Goods, Original Creepy Art & Oddities’. Not only can you get a one-of-a-kind BDSM toy, they’re also open to making custom work…

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Review: D20 Ball Gag by Geeky Sex Toy

Review: D20 Ball Gag by Geeky Sex Toy

Disclaimer: This shop has closed, if it returns review will be updated! Ever been in a kink scene and wish you could cast Silence on your partner, but don’t have the spell slots? Don’t worry, Geeky Sex Toys has you covered with the D20 Ball Gag! And I was super excited that they sent one to me in order to review it. So let’s jump right in!  D20 Silicone Ball Gag Stats The D20 Ball Gag is a D&D fan’s…

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Self-Care After Ending a BDSM Dynamic

Self-Care After Ending a BDSM Dynamic

It has been a few months since I wrote anything that was not a review. I am sure at least a few of my readers have noticed. But I have been focused on self-care you see. The new year brought a lot of big and hard things to my life. The big one being the break of my long-term power dynamic. Combined with everything else that was dragging me down, I took a huge blow to my emotional and mental…

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Review: Sportsheets Silicone Mouth Gag

Review: Sportsheets Silicone Mouth Gag

Gags are something that I have a fascination with and I think they fit well with my oral fixations. Seeing the Sportsheets Silicone Mouth Gag on Vibed intrigued me. The bright shiny lips, glistening cherry red. Large and open so that anything can easily slip between them. I had to know how they worked. Vibed gladly provided them for review, so my excitement only grew!  Sportsheets Silicone Mouth Gag Stats This silicone gag is shaped like an open mouth, sort…

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Review: Saffron Vegan Leather Breathable Ball Gag and Gauntlet Cuffs

Review: Saffron Vegan Leather Breathable Ball Gag and Gauntlet Cuffs

Betty’s Toy Box has recently opened a new site called Naughty Betty’s! At Naughty Betty’s they focus on BDSM and other kink gear. So I was excited when they reached out to see if I wanted to review some things from the new site. Seeing some of the new Saffron Collection from Sportsheets on the list. I really wanted to know just how the vegan leather felt and held up! Saffron Breathable Ball Gag The Saffron Breathable Ball Gag is…

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Review: Mag-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps

Review: Mag-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps

As someone who has sensitive nipples, I love a good pair of clamps. Not only do they just turn up my sensitivity but they can be extremely sexy looking as well. Because my nipples are fairly large I tend to stick to the more alligator kind of clamp. Or even just a simple pair of clothespins. So the idea of the Magi-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps when I saw them on Naughty Betty‘s intrigued me. Magi-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps The Magi-point…

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Review: ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag

Review: ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag

As a company, Zalo leans into a very designer aesthetic. With their new Doll Designer Collection, they have drawn inspiration from roses to create a truly decadent set of kink accessories and toys. The Rose Ball Gag is one that drew the eyes of many including myself. Rose Ball Gag While simple in design the Rose Ball Gag has a lot going on. First, the ball and the rose plug are made from silicone. While the straps are made from…

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Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

When looking over gags from Shevibe I recently picked out the Extreme O-Ring Gag to review. Gags are some of my favorite kink accessories. The idea of having the ability to clearly or even at all taken away. It is the one that always makes me squirm. Though I have only ever used ball gags or gags made out of cloth. So the chance to try a new gag is one that I never pass! Extreme O-Ring Gag This gag…

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Rituals and Routine

Rituals and Routine

Standing in the kitchen, I watch as tea swirls in a burgundy cup. Having just added honey with a hint of sugar, I wait. As it slows I add just a bit of cream turning the dark liquid a soft tan. These few moments allow me to get a few breaths and ground myself. Though the tea isn’t for me, it is for Sir. It is one of the few rituals we have within our power dynamic that is consistent….

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Review: 50 Shades of Kink

Review: 50 Shades of Kink

When it comes to kink, everyone starts somewhere. 50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino is one of those starting points. 50 Shades of Kink When I saw that it was written by Tristan Taormino, I had very high hopes. This is not the first instructional book about kink that she has written. She also penned The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. Which I would certainly consider that book the big…

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