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Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

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Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Writing is hard and writing about my personal life is even harder at times. Putting myself out into the world leaves me vulnerable from the second I push the publish button.  It is something that when it comes to writing that is not a review I struggle at. Often I am left with the dread that I am just yelling into the wind. Like I am being almost narcissistic when I write about myself too much. It would have never…

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

In August of 2017, I was sitting on the couch. The house next door not yet torn down. To ignore the sounds of the creaking and the lingering smell of burnt wood. I was diving head first into the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit hashtag. Following workshops that my fellow bloggers were attending. Sharing quotes and drama with my housemates. I remember at one point someone saying ‘So you are going to go next year, right?‘. Even then, I wasn’t sure. Fast…

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Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

When I reach for a toy, I will always grab one that vibrates because it is my favorite for masturbation. Nine times out of ten it will be rechargeable. I love rechargeable toys because while they are sometimes a little more expensive it saves me from spending more on batteries. But when you look at my bedside table, I always have at least one smaller battery toy that hangs out among the rotation. Often the battery powered toy tends to…

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Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

I grew up on 90’s anime. My big top three being Sailor Moon, Ranma 1/2 and Revolutionary Girl Utena. The one that stuck with me through all of my years have of course was Sailor Moon. Sailor Moon was a contributing factor to a young Meg realizing she was not heterosexual. The fan fiction was also a door into the world of Polyamory, though I didn’t know it at the time. After a late night of watching the show, the…

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Tale of Two Collars

Tale of Two Collars

CW: Abuse, Abuse in a BDSM Dynamic It was about a month or so ago, I came down with the worst cough that lasted about two weeks. It left my neck swollen from agitation and lead to me having to remove my collar. A simple action, taken for the care of me. Left me with some emotions. Both of the new kind and remembering things from my past. That week I even tried to write about it, but the cold…

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Share Our Shit Saturday: Summer 100 Week 7

Share Our Shit Saturday: Summer 100 Week 7

The first week into the theme of kink and BDSM has garnered a lot of fantastic posts. I took the chance to write about how sadism can be causal and light. Though as we get deeper into the challenge is seems that more writers have slipped out. But that is okay, I know I still look forward to there writing. Everyone misses a week now and then, life happens. There is still some great work to share this week! Towards a…

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Casual Sadism: Day to Day Kink

Casual Sadism: Day to Day Kink

I sit next to Sir while we are hanging out with others in the same room. He on his phone and I on my laptop. A message pops up from him in WhatsApp from him. Sometimes it is something sweet or something super hot. Then there are the times it is something that causes me pain. His small casual sadism making me pout, while he gives me a bright grin. It is something that has been a part of our…

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Share Our Shit Saturday – Summer 100 Week 6

Share Our Shit Saturday – Summer 100 Week 6

Week three is coming to an end, soon we move from talk of relationships to Kink/BDSM. I won’t lie, I am a little excited about this. I may have some writing saved for the upcoming theme. Now that has not stopped me from continuing to enjoy the posts from the other participants of Summer 100. Here is just a smattering of what caught my eye this week. Don’t forget to click the link at the bottom to be taken to…

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Late Night Rambling: Unconventional Communication

Late Night Rambling: Unconventional Communication

Every night before I go to bed, I lay there with my eyes dozing on and off to the light of my phone. My fingers slipping over the screen as I write what comes to mind. I ramble on as I let the background thoughts flow into the chat box. Once those thoughts stop moving so quickly I know that I can finally rest. Sending off my good nights before finally attempting sleep. The person who gets those late night rambles…

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