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Polyam Journey: Our House

Polyam Journey: Our House

Our house, it has a crowd There’s always something happening And it’s usually quite loud Our House by Madness When I tell people that I live in a house with seven other people, their eyes normally get wide. “Seven? How do you make it work?” They ask. Even growing up there was six people between my parents, brother, and cousins who came to live with us. This is a chaos that I am no stranger to, and have found I actually…

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Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape.  It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…

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Toys to Try In 2019

Toys to Try In 2019

This year it is my plan to branch out more, try things new things. Explore new types of toys. Dildos, wands, and kink toys! Oh my! There is so much that I want to try this year. Be it more of my favorites or new experiences! Fantasy This year I got to grow my fantasy collection with some wonderful things from Split Peaches. Unicorns and Giant Screws! But It left me wanting more. From toys that speak to my inner…

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2019 Goals: The Year of More

2019 Goals: The Year of More

My 2018 has been a whirlwind of events. Starting this blog, moving, and going to my first conference. Those three things have been huge milestones for me. It made me realize what I am capable of. Even on short notice. They allowed me to learn new skills, experience new things, and grow in my community. Of course, I want my 2019 to be no different. Continuing to grow is my biggest goal. Though within those goals, there are my own milestones that…

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Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

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Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Writing is hard and writing about my personal life is even harder at times. Putting myself out into the world leaves me vulnerable from the second I push the publish button.  It is something that when it comes to writing that is not a review I struggle at. Often I am left with the dread that I am just yelling into the wind. Like I am being almost narcissistic when I write about myself too much. It would have never…

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

In August of 2017, I was sitting on the couch. The house next door not yet torn down. To ignore the sounds of the creaking and the lingering smell of burnt wood. I was diving head first into the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit hashtag. Following workshops that my fellow bloggers were attending. Sharing quotes and drama with my housemates. I remember at one point someone saying ‘So you are going to go next year, right?‘. Even then, I wasn’t sure. Fast…

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Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

When I reach for a toy, I will always grab one that vibrates because it is my favorite for masturbation. Nine times out of ten it will be rechargeable. I love rechargeable toys because while they are sometimes a little more expensive it saves me from spending more on batteries. But when you look at my bedside table, I always have at least one smaller battery toy that hangs out among the rotation. Often the battery powered toy tends to…

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Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

I grew up on 90’s anime. My big top three being Sailor Moon, Ranma 1/2 and Revolutionary Girl Utena. The one that stuck with me through all of my years have of course was Sailor Moon. Sailor Moon was a contributing factor to a young Meg realizing she was not heterosexual. The fan fiction was also a door into the world of Polyamory, though I didn’t know it at the time. After a late night of watching the show, the…

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Tale of Two Collars

Tale of Two Collars

CW: Abuse, Abuse in a BDSM Dynamic It was about a month or so ago, I came down with the worst cough that lasted about two weeks. It left my neck swollen from agitation and lead to me having to remove my collar. A simple action, taken for the care of me. Left me with some emotions. Both of the new kind and remembering things from my past. That week I even tried to write about it, but the cold…

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