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Working Magic: Affirmations and Self-Love

Working Magic: Affirmations and Self-Love

Words have power, something I have written about before. Taking them back and making them your own. Though sometimes there are whole phrases that take over your mind. I have recently been taking time to disavow them and make your own affirmations instead. Learning to fall in love with the things used against you. “You look like ten pounds of potatoes in a five pound sack.” Those words ring in my ears with every piece of clothing I try on….

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My Pride Is Enough

My Pride Is Enough

My last few years with gender have been, a rollercoaster of discovery. It started with small steps before I came out as demigendered. I tested the waters with pronouns and how I felt. Finally settling happily with She/They for a lot of different reasons. I was lucky to have the safe spaces I did to test those waters. From there it was discovered that while I don’t identify as female, femme is something I always will be. That being able…

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Polyam Journey: Keeping Track of it All

Polyam Journey: Keeping Track of it All

The one thing I often get asked when I mention living with seven other people. All of whom are either in a relationship or power dynamic either within or outside of our house. Is how do we keep track of everything? Not just the day today, but the who and what. Having covered the first, I wanted to cover the second! Because with that, brings spreadsheets! Yup! That is right we have a spreadsheet for this. Every six months (or…

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The Perfect Sex Shop: Building a Dream Store

The Perfect Sex Shop: Building a Dream Store

The perfect sex toy shop. It is something I think many people have thought about. I know I certainly have. Having visited a number of shops, both big chains, and small boutiques alike in my life. It has given me an idea of what I would look for in a sex toy shop. Though that doesn’t stop me from thinking about what would make a perfect sex shop! Not just my own ideas but a lot of them are echoed…

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Making Your Own Orgasmic Full Moon Ritual

Making Your Own Orgasmic Full Moon Ritual

When it comes to my craft, sexuality and masturbation are always mixed in with them. I have written about how important a connection my pleasure and spirituality are. One of the times I bring them together is during the full moon. A time when there is a lot of power to put towards intentions. With this post, it is my hope to help you be able to put together your own rituals. That will revolve around using sex and pleasure…

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Inner Self-Care in Stressful Times

Inner Self-Care in Stressful Times

The last few weeks have been a bit stressful, the world has been just a lot. Being at home was unexpected and led to having rest I wasn’t expecting. Leaving me to be in my head a lot. Thinking about myself, the past, and just the stuff I tend to tuck away because I have so much going on. Without the rush of my trying to balance my busy life. I have taken the time to check in with the…

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Unique Toys to Add to Your Toybox

Unique Toys to Add to Your Toybox

There are so many toys out in the world today. From your basic dildos to vibrators, and beyond. New tech is always popping up with air pressure clitoral toys or lightweight thrusting toys! But what are some truly unique toys out there? I have taken a look and found a few very unique items that are carried both online and in many sex shops. Body Molding Kits Kits are I think one of the most unique toys that one can…

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5 Things You May Not Know About the Magic Wand Orginal

5 Things You May Not Know About the Magic Wand Orginal

The Magic Wand Orginal is a sex toy that is iconic. You can always spot one in the wild on television shows and in art. Even in porn, you know that its a Magic Wand when they cover up the name. Every blogger including yours truly has done a review on it. While it has changed names, it has never lost its spot as what might be the most sold sex toys today. But here are some things you may…

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SwingTowns: A Dating Site for the Non-Monogamous

SwingTowns: A Dating Site for the Non-Monogamous

There are many dating sites out there. And while many of them give the option to flag as non-monogamous. Only a few are made for searching for just those in open relationships. So sometimes it can be hard finding others where you live that they can meet. This is where SwingTowns comes in! A dating and networking site for swingers, polyamorists, and non-monogamists. This means even if you are new to the lifestyles or just looking to expand your horizons….

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Healing Kink: Caregiver/Little Dynamic

Healing Kink: Caregiver/Little Dynamic

Lately, I feel like the talk of Caregiver/Little dynamics has been on the rise. While I am no stranger to the dynamic, it is a hard one for me to read about. On the one hand, it is fully one of my kinks. Though on the other, it is a kink that I am trying to untangle from the trauma of my abuse. One that has been harder to heal from than just dominance as a whole. Due to the…

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