When it comes to kink, everyone starts somewhere. 50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino is one of those starting points. 50 Shades of Kink When I saw that it was written by Tristan Taormino, I had very high hopes. This is not the first instructional book about kink that she has written. She also penned The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. Which I would certainly consider that book the big…
CW: Abuse, Abuse in a BDSM Dynamic It was about a month or so ago, I came down with the worst cough that lasted about two weeks. It left my neck swollen from agitation and lead to me having to remove my collar. A simple action, taken for the care of me. Left me with some emotions. Both of the new kind and remembering things from my past. That week I even tried to write about it, but the cold…
I sit next to Sir while we are hanging out with others in the same room. He on his phone and I on my laptop. A message pops up from him in WhatsApp from him. Sometimes it is something sweet or something super hot. Then there are the times it is something that causes me pain. His small casual sadism making me pout, while he gives me a bright grin. It is something that has been a part of our…
Gags are something that I have always enjoyed when it comes to kink. They are one of the first accessories I really got into. There is so much about them to really enjoy if you get into them. However, like any BDSM accessory you want to know how to use it safely. While I am mentioned ball gags the most here, these are things that can be remembered with all gags. Check out my guide to the different type of…