Review: Pop Tops Deluxe Silicone G-spotter

Review: Pop Tops Deluxe Silicone G-spotter

Having reviewed the Magic Wand Original not too long ago, I mused in there that of course the wand certainly has options for attachments to add to the head. The Pop Tops Deluxe Silicone G-spotter from Pleasure Works is just one of those attachments. G-Spotter Attachment The premise of this that you slip it over the head of the Magic Wand and then you can use the wand internally on your G-spot or anally to stimulate your prostate. The G-spotter…

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Review: Crystal Heart of Glass

Review: Crystal Heart of Glass

Glass toys, they are a lovely body safe treat. They have simple designs and are often discreet. Their shapes tending to be nonphallic as well. So they make for great toys for everyone. Plus most of the time you don’t have to break the bank to own one, many coming in at under $50. Though I was lucky to find that Shevibe carries one for under $30, the Crystal Heart of Glass. Crystal Heart of Glass The Crystal Heart of Glass is…

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Review: Magic Wand Original

Review: Magic Wand Original

What can be said about the Original Magic Wand, which was once known as the Hitachi be said that has not been said before?  This massager can be used anywhere on the body.  There are of course attachments that can be gotten in tandem with the magic wand that will allow you to use it internally as well. It is rather large and heavy, so most find it good for solo play. It also works well with a partner as well….

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Review: 50 Shades of Kink

Review: 50 Shades of Kink

When it comes to kink, everyone starts somewhere. 50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino is one of those starting points. 50 Shades of Kink When I saw that it was written by Tristan Taormino, I had very high hopes. This is not the first instructional book about kink that she has written. She also penned The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. Which I would certainly consider that book the big…

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Review: Iroha Zen

Review: Iroha Zen

Lots of vibrators will get you off quickly. Especially vibrators designed for targeting the clitoris or other highly sensitive areas.  Clitoral vibrators are my go-to for quick and easy orgasm. But then the Iroha Zen came into my life. A very simple vibrator, with only 3-speed settings and a pulse setting. The design a simple bulb shape, with texture in a twisted wave. The matcha green color making me think of a whisk for making traditional matcha in a wooden…

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Review: My Life on the Swingset

Review: My Life on the Swingset

For me, My Life on the Swingset has been one of those books that has been in my ‘To Read’ pile for a while. Though I never quite got the time. An avid fan of the podcast that shares the same name I have been listening since it started way back in 2010. It was my podcast of choice for riding on the bus every day to work and still is! Reading books for a little while taking a back…

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Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Summer has come and gone, while autumn has arrived finally. The leave changing colors and the air getting colder, bundling up under blankets. It really is my favorite time of year. This is not to say that Summer was not amazing. From participating in the Summer 100 challenge to getting to attend my first conference it was busy! My Polyam family and I also moved into our new house, finally finding a place that is all ours! I wish I…

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Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

The NoMoreWetSpot Blanket is a waterproof fleece blanket that is also reversible. NoMoreWetSpot sells their blankets in three sizes. The mini which is 30″x6″, their basic size in 50″x60″ and their Jumbo at 5′x7’ft. The blankets are double sided waterproof fleece and come in a couple of color selections. While I was sent the black/tan. There is also black/red and aqua/purple.  The blanket is lightweight coming in at under 1.5lbs. So it will not feel like you are lugging it…

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Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

CW: This whole post will contain talk about abuse and trauma.   While I have written in the past about healing from non-sexual trauma in the past. I have only written about dealing with sexual trauma tangentially. While I was at Woodhull, I had the pleasure to attend Using Sex Toys as a Tool to Heal From Trauma run by Sarah B Holl from Formidable Femme. It was one of many I was looking forward to. Healing sexually has been the most recent focus for me….

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Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

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