Aftercare After Abuse: Taking Back Phrases

Aftercare After Abuse: Taking Back Phrases

CW: Gaslighting, Abusive Phrases Every night, I write a sort of rambling journal to Sir in order to clear my head. A message right before saying goodnight to get things out. Thoughts I might have. Goals that I want to accomplish. Things that I am proud that I did that day. It is always different depending on my headspace. One night, in particular, I had a very deep bit of thought. One that I felt I needed to share. Because…

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Review: Inclusion Rainbow Harness

Review: Inclusion Rainbow Harness

Sometimes a toy or accessory fits a need. In the case of the Inclusion Rainbow Harness, it goes towards a need. Activist Teacher makes each of their harnesses by hand. With the proceeds going towards LGBTQ education in rural Ontario. After the government announced last year they would be using outdated material from 1998. Which does not include gender identity or LGBTQ issues. The proceeds go towards Alex being able to travel to teach at universities. Most importantly educating both…

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Tarot Signifiers: Heart of the Cards

Tarot Signifiers: Heart of the Cards

Tarot is something in my practice for some time. It has become my main source for my divination and daily practice. It was one of the first things I picked up when it came to myself and witchcraft. One of the first things I was taught was picking a signifier card. This is a card that represents you or what your question might pertain to. Over the years, I have found that I keep going back to certain cards for…

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Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

When looking over gags from Shevibe I recently picked out the Extreme O-Ring Gag to review. Gags are some of my favorite kink accessories. The idea of having the ability to clearly or even at all taken away. It is the one that always makes me squirm. Though I have only ever used ball gags or gags made out of cloth. So the chance to try a new gag is one that I never pass! Extreme O-Ring Gag This gag…

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Rituals and Routine

Rituals and Routine

Standing in the kitchen, I watch as tea swirls in a burgundy cup. Having just added honey with a hint of sugar, I wait. As it slows I add just a bit of cream turning the dark liquid a soft tan. These few moments allow me to get a few breaths and ground myself. Though the tea isn’t for me, it is for Sir. It is one of the few rituals we have within our power dynamic that is consistent….

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Review: Drago and Draken by The Realm

Review: Drago and Draken by The Realm

This is the review of the Drago and Draken from The Realm! I decided to change it up just a little and have some fun. So enjoy this story review. Finding myself in the woods, my party resting near the river. We had spent the last few weeks hitting up various dungeons. Cleaning up a few things in the river I spotted it. Shining in the light that came through the canopy of trees above me. A sword. The hilt…

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Broken Pedestals: When Your Heroes Fail You

Broken Pedestals: When Your Heroes Fail You

It is a trope that you often see in shows. Someone in the main cast gets a chance to interact with someone who had an impact on their lives. Though up until now they were just a distant thing. Now getting to meet them in real life, they come to find out. They are nothing like the image they had built up in their heads. But tropes, come from somewhere. In today’s world. I am finding it to be an…

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Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Condom use is an important part of safe sex. From how to use them to what they can be used for. Condom Basics Condoms are a thin sheath that covers the erect penis and works by stopping sexual fluids from passing between people during sexual activity. Most often they are made from latex or polyurethane. If condoms are used properly, they are 98% effective in preventing STIs and unplanned pregnancy. Condoms do not protect you from all STIs, such as…

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Review: Crystal Pleasure Wand

Review: Crystal Pleasure Wand

Glass toys will always be special to me. The smoothness, the cool touch against the skin, and the crystalline look. They always have such interesting shapes and textures. Though sometimes you just need something simple. The Crystal Pleasure Wand by NS Novelties is that simplicity. Crystal Pleasure Wand The Crystal Pleasure Wand is made of 100% hand-blown, premium Borosilicate glass. Which can be heated or cooled depending on your preference. It comes in at 7 inches in length, 6 inches…

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Healing Kink: Bruises

Healing Kink: Bruises

CW: physical abuse, bruises, pictures of bruises “Bruised is a good look on you,” Sir says after giving me some amazing back scritches after a long afternoon of video making. My chest bruised the cause of them being a crop that I used while shooting a video. They are dying down and still a brilliant red. Though I had sent him a picture right after so he had seen them in their fresh stages. Blushing I comment how I do,…

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