Polyam Journey: Our House

Polyam Journey: Our House

Our house, it has a crowd There’s always something happening And it’s usually quite loud Our House by Madness When I tell people that I live in a house with seven other people, their eyes normally get wide. “Seven? How do you make it work?” They ask. Even growing up there was six people between my parents, brother, and cousins who came to live with us. This is a chaos that I am no stranger to, and have found I actually…

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Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape.  It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…

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Review: The Chickie

Review: The Chickie

Emojibator is a company known for taking popular emojis and making them into toys. They had been known for things such as the Eggplant, Chili Pepper, and Banana vibrators. With the Chickie, they have branched out into their first USB rechargeable waterproof suction toy. The Chickie Breakdown The Chickie has 8 pulsation settings, but it also has 8 vibration setting so it is almost like getting two kinds of toys in one. The pulsator is hidden under the head of…

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Finding Femme

Finding Femme

Growing up, I didn’t really have anyone who taught me how to be feminine. My peers growing up being taught by their mothers or older siblings. Whereas I picked up what I could scramble bits and pieces pulled from magazines, the theater, and popular culture. I often stayed away from clothes that clung to me too much. Remembering my mother shaming me for wearing anything that did not hide my size. Time in school was not a help in teaching…

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Review: Exotic-Erotics Werewolf

Review: Exotic-Erotics Werewolf

I have been pretty open about my kink when it comes to monsters, especially shifters.  So when I was contacted by Exotic-Erotics to review a toy, I jumped at getting my hands on the Werewolf from Exotic-Erotics. Having seen reviews of the medium, I thought I could take it. However, I decided instead to start small as this is my first fantasy toy. I got my Werewolf in small with a medium firmness with a custom color. Exotic-Erotics Werewolf Now the…

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Review: Njoy Pure Plug

Review: Njoy Pure Plug

The Njoy Pure Plug has been a part of my collection of toys for years now. It was actually one of the first toys that I really splurged on for myself. Next, to glass, steel is hands down my favorite material for sex toys. For me, the thing I love is the weight and pressure the material allows. Pure Plug Starting from the bottom up, the Pure Plug’s design is made to fit anyone’s body type. The base is a…

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Toys to Try In 2019

Toys to Try In 2019

This year it is my plan to branch out more, try things new things. Explore new types of toys. Dildos, wands, and kink toys! Oh my! There is so much that I want to try this year. Be it more of my favorites or new experiences! Fantasy This year I got to grow my fantasy collection with some wonderful things from Split Peaches. Unicorns and Giant Screws! But It left me wanting more. From toys that speak to my inner…

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Review: Real Nude Helio

Review: Real Nude Helio

Dual-density toys are a fond favorite of mine. I But I will agree that sometimes the price point can be a bit of an issue, so I have been on the lookout for dual density toys that are in a lower price range. That is when my sights landed on the Helio from Blush. Real Nude Helio Blush uses what they are calling their Sensa Feel™ dual density design, made of 100% platinum cure silicone. Firm on the inside and…

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Review: Desirable Dalia

Review: Desirable Dalia

Delicate and decadent are the first two words I would use to describe Desirables’ Dalia. A sleek handmade porcelain toy, made curved for for g-spot stimulation. It already looks like the kind of toy meant for a special occasion. Like the kind of toy that you only use for special guests. Is Porcelain Safe? Porcelain is body safe and hypoallergenic. The technique used to make it, allows it to be non-porous. It retains both heat and cold for handmade porcelain…

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Review: Max Queer Gender Queer Dildo

Review: Max Queer Gender Queer Dildo

What first drew me to the Max Queer Gender Queer Dildo was the coloring, the lovely mix of green, white, and purple. The colors coming together as part of their Pride line to make the Gender-queer flag. The second thing that drew my eye was the shape and the size. For months I have been trying to get into more realistic toys, and the Max Queer shape is close. It felt like the perfect middle ground between phallic and non-phallic….

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