Review: My Life on the Swingset

Review: My Life on the Swingset

For me, My Life on the Swingset has been one of those books that has been in my ‘To Read’ pile for a while. Though I never quite got the time. An avid fan of the podcast that shares the same name I have been listening since it started way back in 2010. It was my podcast of choice for riding on the bus every day to work and still is! Reading books for a little while taking a back…

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Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Summer has come and gone, while autumn has arrived finally. The leave changing colors and the air getting colder, bundling up under blankets. It really is my favorite time of year. This is not to say that Summer was not amazing. From participating in the Summer 100 challenge to getting to attend my first conference it was busy! My Polyam family and I also moved into our new house, finally finding a place that is all ours! I wish I…

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Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

The NoMoreWetSpot Blanket is a waterproof fleece blanket that is also reversible. NoMoreWetSpot sells their blankets in three sizes. The mini which is 30″x6″, their basic size in 50″x60″ and their Jumbo at 5′x7’ft. The blankets are double sided waterproof fleece and come in a couple of color selections. While I was sent the black/tan. There is also black/red and aqua/purple.  The blanket is lightweight coming in at under 1.5lbs. So it will not feel like you are lugging it…

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Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

CW: This whole post will contain talk about abuse and trauma.   While I have written in the past about healing from non-sexual trauma in the past. I have only written about dealing with sexual trauma tangentially. While I was at Woodhull, I had the pleasure to attend Using Sex Toys as a Tool to Heal From Trauma run by Sarah B Holl from Formidable Femme. It was one of many I was looking forward to. Healing sexually has been the most recent focus for me….

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Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

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Review: Avant Pride P5 Fluid

Review: Avant Pride P5 Fluid

Blush has only recently come into my life as a company I really enjoy. When given the chance I have jumped at being able to review their products. Their Avant Line recently grew with their Avant Pride selection. Each one made to be the colors of a different pride flag. The Avant Pride P5 Fluid celebrates the Genderfluid flag with its bold colors in beautiful stripes. Given that I recently came out as Non-Binary it quickly made it on my…

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Review: Lube Light

Review: Lube Light

Lube is an important staple to have at your ready when going at it alone or with a partner. When it comes to using it in the dark, it can be a little tricky. Making sure you found the right container. Especially when you might have access to different types for different preferences, partners, or toys. Then there is making sure you are getting it where you actually want the lube, and not all over the place. Certainly, there are a…

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Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Writing is hard and writing about my personal life is even harder at times. Putting myself out into the world leaves me vulnerable from the second I push the publish button.  It is something that when it comes to writing that is not a review I struggle at. Often I am left with the dread that I am just yelling into the wind. Like I am being almost narcissistic when I write about myself too much. It would have never…

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Review: Shibari Halo

Review: Shibari Halo

It is not a secret with my blog name that I am a fan of wand toys. However the more frills you want, it often is that the more you end up paying. Or, while you do have those options you lose out on things like power. Really what I wanted to do was start to really find what was the best of the under $100 options there were when it came to wand toys. The Shibari Halo, however, caught…

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

In August of 2017, I was sitting on the couch. The house next door not yet torn down. To ignore the sounds of the creaking and the lingering smell of burnt wood. I was diving head first into the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit hashtag. Following workshops that my fellow bloggers were attending. Sharing quotes and drama with my housemates. I remember at one point someone saying ‘So you are going to go next year, right?‘. Even then, I wasn’t sure. Fast…

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