Rituals and Routine

Rituals and Routine

Standing in the kitchen, I watch as tea swirls in a burgundy cup. Having just added honey with a hint of sugar, I wait. As it slows I add just a bit of cream turning the dark liquid a soft tan. These few moments allow me to get a few breaths and ground myself. Though the tea isn’t for me, it is for Sir. It is one of the few rituals we have within our power dynamic that is consistent….

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Review: Drago and Draken by The Realm

Review: Drago and Draken by The Realm

This is the review of the Drago and Draken from The Realm! I decided to change it up just a little and have some fun. So enjoy this story review. Finding myself in the woods, my party resting near the river. We had spent the last few weeks hitting up various dungeons. Cleaning up a few things in the river I spotted it. Shining in the light that came through the canopy of trees above me. A sword. The hilt…

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Broken Pedestals: When Your Heroes Fail You

Broken Pedestals: When Your Heroes Fail You

It is a trope that you often see in shows. Someone in the main cast gets a chance to interact with someone who had an impact on their lives. Though up until now they were just a distant thing. Now getting to meet them in real life, they come to find out. They are nothing like the image they had built up in their heads. But tropes, come from somewhere. In today’s world. I am finding it to be an…

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Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Condom use is an important part of safe sex. From how to use them to what they can be used for. Condom Basics Condoms are a thin sheath that covers the erect penis and works by stopping sexual fluids from passing between people during sexual activity. Most often they are made from latex or polyurethane. If condoms are used properly, they are 98% effective in preventing STIs and unplanned pregnancy. Condoms do not protect you from all STIs, such as…

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Review: Crystal Pleasure Wand

Review: Crystal Pleasure Wand

Glass toys will always be special to me. The smoothness, the cool touch against the skin, and the crystalline look. They always have such interesting shapes and textures. Though sometimes you just need something simple. The Crystal Pleasure Wand by NS Novelties is that simplicity. Crystal Pleasure Wand The Crystal Pleasure Wand is made of 100% hand-blown, premium Borosilicate glass. Which can be heated or cooled depending on your preference. It comes in at 7 inches in length, 6 inches…

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Healing Kink: Bruises

Healing Kink: Bruises

CW: physical abuse, bruises, pictures of bruises “Bruised is a good look on you,” Sir says after giving me some amazing back scritches after a long afternoon of video making. My chest bruised the cause of them being a crop that I used while shooting a video. They are dying down and still a brilliant red. Though I had sent him a picture right after so he had seen them in their fresh stages. Blushing I comment how I do,…

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Pleasure for All Bodies: Kink and More

Pleasure for All Bodies: Kink and More

If pleasure is for all bodies, kink certainly is on that list of where many people find their pleasure. Though when you aren’t able bodied you have to change up how you make it work. Thankfully, there are things out there that can help. Not only for yourself, but for your partner as well. Once again, as with my blog post about sex toys, this is all from personal experience. My advice is very general because you know your body…

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Big Shot Squirting Dildo by Evolved Novelties

Big Shot Squirting Dildo by Evolved Novelties

Often get caught in a rut of things that are the same. This can happen a lot when you review so many toys. So this time I stepped out of my comfort zone. A toy that is both realistic and my first that squirts! The Big Shot Squirting Dildo. Big Shot Squirting Dildo Coming in at 8′ inches with 6′ inches being insertable it is not large. Though it is stiff so that it can hold the reservoir and a…

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The Weight of Worth

The Weight of Worth

CW: Fatphobia, Depression, Body Issues, Avengers: Endgame Spoilers My boyfriend and I sit in the car headed to the theater. We have been seeing Marvel movies together since Captian America: Winter Soldier. He is the Bucky to my Steve. So Endgame was always something we knew was going to be a date night. As I navigate us to the nearest theater we start up a conversation. “Have you been spoiled at all?” I ask, knowing my answer is that I…

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Ink and Flesh: The Impulse

Ink and Flesh: The Impulse

One could describe me as impulsive. Even more so when it comes to my emotions and my feelings for people. It is something I try often to curb. Though a few times it has gotten the better of me one could say. Sometimes it is moving. Other times it is getting into a relationship. Though, there was this one time. It was a tattoo. I made the fabled choice of getting a tattoo, in the heat of the moment. A…

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