Review: The Butters Lube with Cocoa Butter

Review: The Butters Lube with Cocoa Butter

We all know my love for The Butters as a lube made by The Butters Hygienics co. Which is run by Jerome Stuart Nichols. Not only did I rave about it in my review, but I have been quoted on the packaging! Needless to say. When Jerome reached out for me to review their Cocoa Butter forumal I was excited. Then I moved. The holidays happened and it got caught under a wave of other things. Yet through all of…

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Hiring an Escort? 4 Tips to Make it Easy!

Hiring an Escort? 4 Tips to Make it Easy!

Hiring an Escort can be a slightly daunting task, especially if it is your first time. There are many sex workers and escort agencies in so many areas. That it can seem like you don’t really know where to start. These are 4 tips to take that may make your search easier. 1. Learn Your Escort Terms Terms like outcall, incall, GFE (Girlfriend Experience), and PSE (Porn Star Experience) are going to four terms that you will see everywhere. Outcall…

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Woodhull SFS ’19: Witchy Wrap-Up

Woodhull SFS ’19: Witchy Wrap-Up

Once again, I was delighted when I was able to attend the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit like I did last year. While I felt that my first year was a whirlwind of activity, this year was a little more subdued. Having learned some lessons from my previous attendance. The first being rooming with another blogger. I was very lucky to have the company of Indigo, who runs the blog Indigo is an Adult. This year I was lucky to have…

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Review: Pop Top Wand Attachment Nubby Purple

Review: Pop Top Wand Attachment Nubby Purple

Wand attachments are a great way to breath new life into your old wand. Or to let you use a wand between partners. Attachments slip over the head of most wands, though are often made with the Orignal Magic Wand in mind. Pleasure Works makes three Pop Tops all for under $25 dollars. The Rigged Black, Smooth Fuschia, and Nubby Purple. Shevibe carries all three, and I had a chance to review one of them. So I picked the Nubby…

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Review: Vibease

Review: Vibease

App-controlled toys are still fairly new when it comes to the market that is sex tech. Though most are rather standard in letting you connect with another person. With Vibease they took it a step further. Not only can you use this toy with a partner through their app. You can also use the Vibease while listening to audiobooks that have set vibration controls during the audio. Vibease Toy The Vibease toy is rather small in size and bean-shaped with…

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Aftercare After Abuse: Taking Back Phrases

Aftercare After Abuse: Taking Back Phrases

CW: Gaslighting, Abusive Phrases Every night, I write a sort of rambling journal to Sir in order to clear my head. A message right before saying goodnight to get things out. Thoughts I might have. Goals that I want to accomplish. Things that I am proud that I did that day. It is always different depending on my headspace. One night, in particular, I had a very deep bit of thought. One that I felt I needed to share. Because…

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Review: Inclusion Rainbow Harness

Review: Inclusion Rainbow Harness

Sometimes a toy or accessory fits a need. In the case of the Inclusion Rainbow Harness, it goes towards a need. Activist Teacher makes each of their harnesses by hand. With the proceeds going towards LGBTQ education in rural Ontario. After the government announced last year they would be using outdated material from 1998. Which does not include gender identity or LGBTQ issues. The proceeds go towards Alex being able to travel to teach at universities. Most importantly educating both…

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Tarot Signifiers: Heart of the Cards

Tarot Signifiers: Heart of the Cards

Tarot is something in my practice for some time. It has become my main source for my divination and daily practice. It was one of the first things I picked up when it came to myself and witchcraft. One of the first things I was taught was picking a signifier card. This is a card that represents you or what your question might pertain to. Over the years, I have found that I keep going back to certain cards for…

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Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

When looking over gags from Shevibe I recently picked out the Extreme O-Ring Gag to review. Gags are some of my favorite kink accessories. The idea of having the ability to clearly or even at all taken away. It is the one that always makes me squirm. Though I have only ever used ball gags or gags made out of cloth. So the chance to try a new gag is one that I never pass! Extreme O-Ring Gag This gag…

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Rituals and Routine

Rituals and Routine

Standing in the kitchen, I watch as tea swirls in a burgundy cup. Having just added honey with a hint of sugar, I wait. As it slows I add just a bit of cream turning the dark liquid a soft tan. These few moments allow me to get a few breaths and ground myself. Though the tea isn’t for me, it is for Sir. It is one of the few rituals we have within our power dynamic that is consistent….

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