Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

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Review: Avant Pride P5 Fluid

Review: Avant Pride P5 Fluid

Blush has only recently come into my life as a company I really enjoy. When given the chance I have jumped at being able to review their products. Their Avant Line recently grew with their Avant Pride selection. Each one made to be the colors of a different pride flag. The Avant Pride P5 Fluid celebrates the Genderfluid flag with its bold colors in beautiful stripes. Given that I recently came out as Non-Binary it quickly made it on my…

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Review: Lube Light

Review: Lube Light

Lube is an important staple to have at your ready when going at it alone or with a partner. When it comes to using it in the dark, it can be a little tricky. Making sure you found the right container. Especially when you might have access to different types for different preferences, partners, or toys. Then there is making sure you are getting it where you actually want the lube, and not all over the place. Certainly, there are a…

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Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Woodhull Wisdom 2018: Living Out Loud

Writing is hard and writing about my personal life is even harder at times. Putting myself out into the world leaves me vulnerable from the second I push the publish button.  It is something that when it comes to writing that is not a review I struggle at. Often I am left with the dread that I am just yelling into the wind. Like I am being almost narcissistic when I write about myself too much. It would have never…

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Review: Shibari Halo

Review: Shibari Halo

It is not a secret with my blog name that I am a fan of wand toys. However the more frills you want, it often is that the more you end up paying. Or, while you do have those options you lose out on things like power. Really what I wanted to do was start to really find what was the best of the under $100 options there were when it came to wand toys. The Shibari Halo, however, caught…

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018: A Witchy Wrap Up

In August of 2017, I was sitting on the couch. The house next door not yet torn down. To ignore the sounds of the creaking and the lingering smell of burnt wood. I was diving head first into the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit hashtag. Following workshops that my fellow bloggers were attending. Sharing quotes and drama with my housemates. I remember at one point someone saying ‘So you are going to go next year, right?‘. Even then, I wasn’t sure. Fast…

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Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

Bedside Staples: Battery Powered Vibrator

When I reach for a toy, I will always grab one that vibrates because it is my favorite for masturbation. Nine times out of ten it will be rechargeable. I love rechargeable toys because while they are sometimes a little more expensive it saves me from spending more on batteries. But when you look at my bedside table, I always have at least one smaller battery toy that hangs out among the rotation. Often the battery powered toy tends to…

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Review: Zumio

Review: Zumio

When it comes to vibrators for clitoral stimulation, my collection is very simple. One could even go so far as to call it traditional. The simple shapes with the bullet top or perhaps that angled lipstick look. So when the Zumio came into my life, it was already different. The very small rounded tip made me think of the water pick in the bathroom right away. It had a slight bit of a charge when I unpackaged it the first…

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Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

Character Collections: In The Name of the Moan

I grew up on 90’s anime. My big top three being Sailor Moon, Ranma 1/2 and Revolutionary Girl Utena. The one that stuck with me through all of my years have of course was Sailor Moon. Sailor Moon was a contributing factor to a young Meg realizing she was not heterosexual. The fan fiction was also a door into the world of Polyamory, though I didn’t know it at the time. After a late night of watching the show, the…

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Tale of Two Collars

Tale of Two Collars

CW: Abuse, Abuse in a BDSM Dynamic It was about a month or so ago, I came down with the worst cough that lasted about two weeks. It left my neck swollen from agitation and lead to me having to remove my collar. A simple action, taken for the care of me. Left me with some emotions. Both of the new kind and remembering things from my past. That week I even tried to write about it, but the cold…

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