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Polyam Journey: Finding My Language

September 20, 2018 Witch of the Wands Comments 0 Comment

When I first started into anything involving non-monogamy and polyamory, I was overwhelmed. I took the tactic of treating it like anything else I was interested in. Studying. Took my time to find blogs, books, and other resources. The first thing I dove into was the language, what words changed and what things stayed the same. Unicorn, Solo-Polyam, and relationship anarchy? I was rather overwhelmed when I first started. Always worried about not using the right words. Until I started…

Polyam Journey: Finding Home

April 30, 2018 Witch of the Wands Comments 5 comments

Being polyamorous is not a thing that always was for me, it took me a long time to get to this place. When I was in high school my friend’s group used to talk about living together. Like one big family. Taking care of one another, looking out for each other and just being together. We would often talk and make plans, it all seemed normal. This was far before I discovered polyamory was even a thing. Like most high school…