First, I just want to say, please pardon the dust here and any mistakes that might be made. Not only am I writing this straight from my WordPress publisher, this post has been in no way looked over by the housemate who does editing for me. This is mostly because every time I have lingered too long in Google Docs, I get worried about writing it. This post is not going to be optimized for SEO, the banner made quickly…
Almost two years ago, I was interviewed by Poly Role Models after getting to meet Kevin Patterson at my first Woodhull. Having been a follower of these interviews with others in the Polyamory community, I was honored to be on the list. It was through this interview, that I found my superpower when it comes to polyamorous relationships. One of the questions that gave me pause to think, was ‘What aspect of polyamory do you excel at?‘. My personal answer…
By the end of this year, I have written almost 50 posts. Which total about thirty thousand words. It has been an interesting mix of guides, reviews, personal posts, and so much more. So I narrowed down some of my favorites that I really want to spotlight from this last year. Favorite Review This one was so fun to write! I really enjoyed taking a different route on how I presented this particular review. Using a more story-driven kind of…
With 2020 on the horizon, a lot of things have been popping up about what has happened in the last decade. This has lead to a lot of fun information and cute memes. It also had me thinking about just how I have changed in the course of the last 10 years. Some of the milestones that I went through getting me to the place I am in today. 2010 At the start of the decade, I was three years…
When I tell people that I live in a house with seven other people, their eyes normally get wide. “Seven? How do you make it work?” They ask. Even growing up there were six people between my parents, brother, and cousins who came to live with us. This is a chaos that I am no stranger to, and have found I actually thrive in. I remember when I would live with just one other person it was actually harder, not just…
I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape. It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…
My oral fixation has been a thing, for as long as I can remember. Casually chewing on pens and pencils. Drawn to treats I could slowly suck on. Feeling different textures on my lips and tongue. I take my time with the things that go into my mouth. Sometimes I have been told that it is almost obscene. I have an oral fixation. Though I am only currently starting to own it. Forever Fixated It is something current and former…
CW: There are actual pictures of damage from the fire, both my own house and the house next door in this blog post past the read more. Also, talk of PTSD and of course Trauma. Things that cause us trauma can happen at any time, we don’t really know when they are going to hit. And while it might have not been sexual trauma, it can still affect how we process and find pleasure. However taking back that pleasure afterward,…
With May being National Masturbation Month, of course, that is what many a sex bloggers mind is on. Mine is no different. Though I found myself thinking less about the act itself, not about how I do it. Instead, I found myself focusing on my new found freedom when it came to masturbation. A sort of liberation I am currently going through sexually when it comes to self-pleasure. To move forward we have to look back For as long as…
Being polyamorous is not a thing that always was for me, it took me a long time to get to this place. When I was in high school my friend’s group used to talk about living together. Like one big family. Taking care of one another, looking out for each other and just being together. We would often talk and make plans, it all seemed normal. This was far before I discovered polyamory was even a thing. Like most high school…