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Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

In what seems like a sea of sex toys. It can often be hard finding ones that work when your not an able-bodied individual. When you are testing them it can be overwhelming and sometimes even disappointing. Not every toy is made for every body. Not every body can use ever toy. But there are things to look for in your toys. That can make them work easier for your body. Please note, this is just meant to be taken…

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Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape.  It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…

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Finding Femme

Finding Femme

Growing up, I didn’t really have anyone who taught me how to be feminine. My peers growing up being taught by their mothers or older siblings. Whereas I picked up what I could scramble bits and pieces pulled from magazines, the theater, and popular culture. I often stayed away from clothes that clung to me too much. Remembering my mother shaming me for wearing anything that did not hide my size. Time in school was not a help in teaching…

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Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Summer has come and gone, while autumn has arrived finally. The leave changing colors and the air getting colder, bundling up under blankets. It really is my favorite time of year. This is not to say that Summer was not amazing. From participating in the Summer 100 challenge to getting to attend my first conference it was busy! My Polyam family and I also moved into our new house, finally finding a place that is all ours! I wish I…

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Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

The NoMoreWetSpot Blanket is a waterproof fleece blanket that is also reversible. NoMoreWetSpot sells their blankets in three sizes. The mini which is 30″x6″, their basic size in 50″x60″ and their Jumbo at 5′x7’ft. The blankets are double sided waterproof fleece and come in a couple of color selections. While I was sent the black/tan. There is also black/red and aqua/purple.  The blanket is lightweight coming in at under 1.5lbs. So it will not feel like you are lugging it…

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Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

CW: This whole post will contain talk about abuse and trauma.   While I have written in the past about healing from non-sexual trauma in the past. I have only written about dealing with sexual trauma tangentially. While I was at Woodhull, I had the pleasure to attend Using Sex Toys as a Tool to Heal From Trauma run by Sarah B Holl from Formidable Femme. It was one of many I was looking forward to. Healing sexually has been the most recent focus for me….

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Review: Shibari Halo

Review: Shibari Halo

It is not a secret with my blog name that I am a fan of wand toys. However the more frills you want, it often is that the more you end up paying. Or, while you do have those options you lose out on things like power. Really what I wanted to do was start to really find what was the best of the under $100 options there were when it came to wand toys. The Shibari Halo, however, caught…

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Share Our Shit Saturday – Summer 100 Week 5

Share Our Shit Saturday – Summer 100 Week 5

This week for the Summer 100 we switched from the theme of oral sex and into relationships. I was able to write about my relationship with my body. One of my favorite things about these themes is seeing how others interpret them. With such a broad word like relationships, there is so much to write about. While I cannot wait to see what the second week will bring us. These are my favorites from the first week! Are Men Being…

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Guide: Using Sex Toys During Your Period

Guide: Using Sex Toys During Your Period

Googling ‘masturbation during your period‘ it is easy to find many articles that say it is 100% safe to do. In fact, they all recommend it! Endorphins that happen during masturbation can help deal with pain from cramps or even a bad PMS day. The other thing they all agree on in that it can get messy. So what about sex toy use? Material First, let’s talk body safe materials. Silicone, metal, and glass are going to be the top…

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Guide: Gag Safety and Use

Guide: Gag Safety and Use

Gags are something that I have always enjoyed when it comes to kink. They are one of the first accessories I really got into. There is so much about them to really enjoy if you get into them.  However, like any BDSM accessory you want to know how to use it safely. While I am mentioned ball gags the most here, these are things that can be remembered with all gags. Check out my guide to the different type of…

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