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How to Find the Best Sex Shop for you!

How to Find the Best Sex Shop for you!

Going into a sex shop can be nerve-wracking. Especially if you have never been before. But it can be a fantastic experience if you find the right kind for you. Allow me to break down a few things to take into consideration. So that you can find a brick and mortar stores that works for you! Location This can be both a pro and a con, but it is the biggest factor when deciding to shop at a store. Doing…

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Review: Vibease

Review: Vibease

App-controlled toys are still fairly new when it comes to the market that is sex tech. Though most are rather standard in letting you connect with another person. With Vibease they took it a step further. Not only can you use this toy with a partner through their app. You can also use the Vibease while listening to audiobooks that have set vibration controls during the audio. Vibease Toy The Vibease toy is rather small in size and bean-shaped with…

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Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

Review: Extreme O-Ring Gag

When looking over gags from Shevibe I recently picked out the Extreme O-Ring Gag to review. Gags are some of my favorite kink accessories. The idea of having the ability to clearly or even at all taken away. It is the one that always makes me squirm. Though I have only ever used ball gags or gags made out of cloth. So the chance to try a new gag is one that I never pass! Extreme O-Ring Gag This gag…

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Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Guide: Condoms and Their Uses

Condom use is an important part of safe sex. From how to use them to what they can be used for. Condom Basics Condoms are a thin sheath that covers the erect penis and works by stopping sexual fluids from passing between people during sexual activity. Most often they are made from latex or polyurethane. If condoms are used properly, they are 98% effective in preventing STIs and unplanned pregnancy. Condoms do not protect you from all STIs, such as…

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Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

In what seems like a sea of sex toys. It can often be hard finding ones that work when your not an able-bodied individual. When you are testing them it can be overwhelming and sometimes even disappointing. Not every toy is made for every body. Not every body can use ever toy. But there are things to look for in your toys. That can make them work easier for your body. Please note, this is just meant to be taken…

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Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape.  It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…

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Finding Femme

Finding Femme

Growing up, I didn’t really have anyone who taught me how to be feminine. My peers growing up being taught by their mothers or older siblings. Whereas I picked up what I could scramble bits and pieces pulled from magazines, the theater, and popular culture. I often stayed away from clothes that clung to me too much. Remembering my mother shaming me for wearing anything that did not hide my size. Time in school was not a help in teaching…

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Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Seasons of the Witch: Autumns Eve

Summer has come and gone, while autumn has arrived finally. The leave changing colors and the air getting colder, bundling up under blankets. It really is my favorite time of year. This is not to say that Summer was not amazing. From participating in the Summer 100 challenge to getting to attend my first conference it was busy! My Polyam family and I also moved into our new house, finally finding a place that is all ours! I wish I…

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Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

Review: NoMoreWetSpot Blanket

The NoMoreWetSpot Blanket is a waterproof fleece blanket that is also reversible. NoMoreWetSpot sells their blankets in three sizes. The mini which is 30″x6″, their basic size in 50″x60″ and their Jumbo at 5′x7’ft. The blankets are double sided waterproof fleece and come in a couple of color selections. While I was sent the black/tan. There is also black/red and aqua/purple.  The blanket is lightweight coming in at under 1.5lbs. So it will not feel like you are lugging it…

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Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

Woodhull Wisdom: Trauma and Healing

CW: This whole post will contain talk about abuse and trauma.   While I have written in the past about healing from non-sexual trauma in the past. I have only written about dealing with sexual trauma tangentially. While I was at Woodhull, I had the pleasure to attend Using Sex Toys as a Tool to Heal From Trauma run by Sarah B Holl from Formidable Femme. It was one of many I was looking forward to. Healing sexually has been the most recent focus for me….

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