Over the last few years, I’ve added a new angle to my reviews: how the toy works with my hands and wrists. I talk about this a lot on my social media too. Due to wear and tear, injuries, and just getting older, I often find myself dealing with a lot of hand and wrist pain. This is especially true when I’m testing sex toys. A big part of the issue comes from vibrators and anything that’s meant to be…
CW: Transphobia, Mentions of Deadnaming All tweets shown here have been approved by their author. Save for Kinkly who likely wouldn’t respond as you will read why below. In the last few weeks, I went from being excited for being named one of not only Kinkly’s 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes but also one of the top LGBTQIA+ bloggers as well. Kinkly has in the past claimed that the list was an inclusive space for sex-positivity. But then it came out…
Over the years I have been asked, why do I write sex toy reviews? There are so many things out there. Sex toy reviews are very niche compared to other categories because of the taboo. There are those that find it very frivolous or even undeeded. It is a sex toy? Why care what it can and cannot do? When in reality there are so many reasons why! One of my biggest reasons for this is a time when I…