The one thing I often get asked when I mention living with seven other people. All of whom are either in a relationship or power dynamic either within or outside of our house. Is how do we keep track of everything? Not just the day today, but the who and what. Having covered the first, I wanted to cover the second! Because with that, brings spreadsheets! Yup! That is right we have a spreadsheet for this. Every six months (or…
The perfect sex toy shop. It is something I think many people have thought about. I know I certainly have. Having visited a number of shops, both big chains, and small boutiques alike in my life. It has given me an idea of what I would look for in a sex toy shop. Though that doesn’t stop me from thinking about what would make a perfect sex shop! Not just my own ideas but a lot of them are echoed…
When it comes to my craft, sexuality and masturbation are always mixed in with them. I have written about how important a connection my pleasure and spirituality are. One of the times I bring them together is during the full moon. A time when there is a lot of power to put towards intentions. With this post, it is my hope to help you be able to put together your own rituals. That will revolve around using sex and pleasure…
The last few weeks have been a bit stressful, the world has been just a lot. Being at home was unexpected and led to having rest I wasn’t expecting. Leaving me to be in my head a lot. Thinking about myself, the past, and just the stuff I tend to tuck away because I have so much going on. Without the rush of my trying to balance my busy life. I have taken the time to check in with the…
There are so many toys out in the world today. From your basic dildos to vibrators, and beyond. New tech is always popping up with air pressure clitoral toys or lightweight thrusting toys! But what are some truly unique toys out there? I have taken a look and found a few very unique items that are carried both online and in many sex shops. Body Molding Kits Kits are I think one of the most unique toys that one can…
The Magic Wand Orginal is a sex toy that is iconic. You can always spot one in the wild on television shows and in art. Even in porn, you know that its a Magic Wand when they cover up the name. Every blogger including yours truly has done a review on it. While it has changed names, it has never lost its spot as what might be the most sold sex toys today. But here are some things you may…
There are many dating sites out there. And while many of them give the option to flag as non-monogamous. Only a few are made for searching for just those in open relationships. So sometimes it can be hard finding others where you live that they can meet. This is where SwingTowns comes in! A dating and networking site for swingers, polyamorists, and non-monogamists. This means even if you are new to the lifestyles or just looking to expand your horizons….
Lately, I feel like the talk of Caregiver/Little dynamics has been on the rise. While I am no stranger to the dynamic, it is a hard one for me to read about. On the one hand, it is fully one of my kinks. Though on the other, it is a kink that I am trying to untangle from the trauma of my abuse. One that has been harder to heal from than just dominance as a whole. Due to the…
Divination has always been a passion of mine since I started to build my craft even as a teenager. My first tarot deck was special to me, but I didn’t always have one. Nor was I able to always use it because I was hiding it for a long time. So I learned to use other forms of divination. The most used being divination via music. Why music? For me, music can be highly spiritual. I use it during meditation…
Hiring a sex worker can be for a lot of various reasons. When you are looking for one, then why is very important to your search. This can not only help you by knowing which workers specialize in what you looking for. Or at the very least it is something they are comfortable with doing! Checking out a site like Sunshine Coast each escort has either different rates or a list of things they do, making it easy to find….